Do you
prefer to be a first-born?
Anything a
first-born does is a big deal, simply because it is first in the family. Until
a second child comes along, family and friends usually shower first-borns with
attention but, first-borns receive differentiated treatment within the household.
A commonly first born baby gets the biggest responsibility in life in the
future. They are the one who take care of the family and sometimes become the
breadwinner in the family. But on the other hand, if we’re going to look on the
better side of being a first born baby, it is very fulfilling.
I, being a
first born usually gets lot of attention from my parents and from other
relatives. At the same time, they sent me to school to be professional someday.
They told me that when I finished my degree, I am the one to help them as well
as my sister and brother to be successful, too. Being a first born shoulder all
the responsibilities of their dream to have a prosperous and better life.
Im not a first born but I also feel as the first because my parents always told me that I am the one who will help them if I finish my study. Maybe because my eldest brother and sister have their own family. So even if you are the eldest or youngest child you have to be a good and responsible child for them.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a first born too. but i saw my brother who is our oldest to our family, hmm He is not responsible. Happy go lucky! a womanizer. haha :D my 2nd sister is our bread winner. She do all responsibilities to our family :(
ReplyDeletebeing the first born in our family I really can relate to this.. it's hard but its fun.. hard because all eyes are on you most of the times and fun because your younger sister or brother idolize you.
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